Happy NEW Year.
Despite this, in December 2021 I was diagnosed with cancer following a colonoscopy as a result of me having completed a routine 'poo' test.
My initial thoughts were not good. Until I had a CT Scan and the results of the biopsy there was no way of knowing how extensive the cancer was and what my life expectancy could be.
I remembered boasting in my book that even if something like this happened I was unlikely to go back to alcohol as a 'why not' solution, and I am delighted to say the last thing on my mind was having a drink. I was more concerned for my wife and family. In fact having managed nine years without alcohol and not missing it at all, if there is an afterlife I would hate to look back and think how I screwed it all up at the last minute by having a drink. I really truly am cured of wanting alcohol in my life - forever.
I have now had the CT scan (a bit like being a piece of laundry in the tumble drier and quite pleasant) and it appears that my cancer is contained. I will need major surgery however and I am seeing the surgeon this week to finalise arrangements. That is all very scary and unknown but I take heart from the examples given in the bowel cancer UK charity website, the fact that the Queen Mother lived another 30 years having had bowel cancer, and the fact that I am otherwise very fit, slim (which means key-hole is an option) and determined not to let this get me down.
The key things that relate to drinking for me however, are:
Had I carried on drinking I wouldn't be here anyway.
The healthy position I am in will really help, and all that is down to having quit alcohol.
The positive outlook I have on life, and all the future plans I have will help me mentally, and all that is down to having ditched booze.
Finally, if you are offered the bowel cancer screening test - please do it! The early diagnosis makes ALL the difference.

My latest book is FREE this weekend on Amazon
https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B08N5K2V61
Despite being a ghost story there is an element of truth in this as revealed at the end. The main character drinking and building the bottle tower is also very me! Enjoy

I watched the 1955 film to catch a thief the other night. It starred Grace Kelly and Clark Gable but also an insurance man from Lloyd's of London. This is the same Lloyd's market where I spent most of my working life and learnt to drink like a fish!
It was hilarious to see the 'respectable' old Lloyd's agent swigging down wine whenever he had the opportunity and even quickly filling his glass whenever Clark turned his back.
Obviously even back in the 1950's it was understood that the insurance and alcohol were best buddies - what chance did I have staying sober being immersed in that regime in the 70's. 

I have just signed up for the March Swimathon and will be swimming 5000 meters again and expect to finish in just under two hours. 5000 metres is 200 lengths of a standard swimming pool so quite a challenge. Luckily since I quit alcohol I have been swimming on average 20 times each month to keep fit so I am more than confident.
This year however I am also doing the team event the day before. In my team are my daughter Alexandra, my son-in-law Andy and my granddaughter Isabella. She will only be swimming 33.3 metres but at three years old she will really deserve her medal!

I was on the station platform this morning and I heard someone tell the people they were with that he is quitting smoking. As you can imagine his colleagues were all very supportive, offering advice and assistance and generally wishing him well.
It made me think how different it is when you announce you are quitting alcohol. 'What?' people say. 'Why do you want to do that?' and similar comments.
Drinking is so much part of so many people's lives it is no wonder it is hard to find genuine support when you first start to quit.
It gets easier of course once you are past the first few weeks because them you have the moral high ground and if challenged can truly state the benefits you are experiencing.
It is a good thing there are groups like Club Soda to provide help and advice for those initial weeks. Do make use of all the help that is available and I am always happy to help where I can. Best of luck.

Ages ago I promised to write another book and now I have started that process.
In the interim I have been busy working full time in the City and helping a young software company thrive. This has involved a massive amount of work and mental input but even at 62 I have the energy and brainpower to do this. Something I should have had available to me all those years ago when I wasted my time drinking instead.
One area of focus in my new book will be looking back at lost opportunities. I said in I Don't Drink that I would never look back but perhaps with age I have been doing just that. As you near retirement age and realise there is only a limited working number of years left you tend to wonder what could have been. I know I screwed up so many fantastic opportunities and all of them were buggered because of my fixation with alcohol.
Watch this space for more updates as I write - Seven years and still laughing - am ex-drinker's tale   

I am delighted to say, that without me saying anything my non drinking example is spreading throughout the office. In the small team of five I work in only one person now drinks and he is thinking of cutting down dramatically. Being surrounded by people saying how great they feel, how alert, and the obvious improvement it has in the work they do really does make a difference. One of my colleague who was notorious for his rose wine consumption even managed five days at a very boozy conference in the South of France and stayed sober the whole time. Showing by example is so much softer than trying to nag people to stop drinking - and it works! 

It is nearly seven years since I had a drink but the other night we were at a restaurant and my wife had a glass of Moet. She has not had a drink for seven years either but gave up just to keep me company. Of course I didn't mind her drinking and I enjoyed smelling the champagne and enjoying the sense of it. Was I tempted? It did cross my mind that I wasn't told to quit, I didn't need to quit for medical reasons and so there was nothing to stop me having a glass too. I even thought how nice it would be  - for a second or two. But then I remembered how addicted I used to be, how much the habit could easily come back and I knew that one glass would be a glass every day, then a bottle, then wine as well, then cider and in no time I would be the same alcoholic I was all those years ago. This time however my body would be able to take it far less and I would definitely be signing an early death warrant as opposed to hopefully having another few decades to live. 

yet another spurious piece of research attempting to prove the benefits of alcohol. I wonder of these are funded by governments keen to retain the tax income they receive from alcohol sales. I remember when I used to drink taking refuge in these sorts of articles, helping me to convince myself that I didn't need to quit drinking after all. If I had continue to listen to these arguments I would be long dead by now - thank goodness I stopped.